A few years ago my girlfriend left me for another guy because of his Mate-90 motorcycle. It’s still the only available thing of worth they have.
She called a few days ago and was feeling bad for her impatience. I told her never to feel bad for wanting the best for herself. Not everyone you dump comes back better than who you dumped them for.
Anyone who says you should remain in poverty with him or her is very selfish. Get yourself something better if you can.
But be careful what your reason is; it’s oftentimes better to stay and build than to dump and jump on every nicer bed.